3 Key Ways To Learn To Accept You For You

Women, especially, often have a tough time with this.  The psychology of why is complicated, but goes back to a girl’s need to be “chosen” while growing up.  And to understand and let go of that can be a bear. I’m tweaked by Martin Seligman’s studies that showed girls...

14 Things That Make Me Smile

Because boy, do I ever love to smile.  It makes me happy.  Which makes me smile more! So I often just think of things that do so. Here’s this morning’s list:       Labradors swimming in the tank. Which we did this morning early!  Because when we train water, they...

Maybe For Just One Day, Give Up On Positive Thinking

Life is not all roses. Dang it!  Don’t you want it to be? I know I do.  I want everything to work out (the first time).  I want my books to do well (and those of my editorial clients.).  I want my girls to win in the show ring, and excel in the field.  I want...

Now Available: Your Day To Succeed. You Got This!

So what is success? Of course it means different things to different people, and although we have yardsticks by which we measure say, the 50 yard dash, many times the definition is nebulous. If you’re running the 50 yard dash, and you’re a world-class elite athlete,...

7 Things Happy People Say Daily

So much research has been done on Happiness these days.  What makes someone happy in the exact same circumstances as someone who isn’t?  Why do some folks bounce back quicker from setbacks than others?  Can you actually become happier?  What makes people happy? We’re...